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My spouse is almost the opposite of me in the privacy/FOSS realm.

They use TikTok and other social media, don’t mind ads, use Windows, love Chrome and their Macbook, etc.

We’ve talked about privacy and FOSS a lot. They have the “I don’t care if China/corpos/NSA mine my data, I have nothing to hide.” Plus they like targeted ads and algorithmic content suggestions.

We have a lot of mutual respect for each other and I don’t force my views on them, and they know I won’t use certain apps. I gently suggest FOSS apps to them and sometimes they use them, sometimes not.

They also don’t object to watching shows and movies with me that I “aquire totally legally” because I don’t use streaming services.

I have told them that any children we have, I want to raise with a “FOSS first” philosophy, and they are cool with that.

Ultimately, I want my kids to have the choice of what software they use, FOSS or not. But for my part, they will know that I will only support the FOSS stuff, if they want to go proprietary, that’s on them.

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You are lucky to have multiple wives.😉

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When a lot of us went to school, “they” “them” was only used to talk about a plural of people

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It’s not exclusively singular or plural. That hasn’t changed in more than 50 years

the singular use is so old, when it was first introduced, “they” was still spelled with a fucking thorn!

I’ve also discussed with my partner that they’re welcome to use Facebook but I strongly object to putting photos of children on there until they’re old enough to make their own decisions.

I’ve pointed out that posting publicly is purely for vanity reasons unless they’ve made a conscious decision to have exclusively friends and family. In other words, you don’t need to please people who don’t matter.

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This transphobic mf’er doesn’t even get that saying “they” is protecting both their and their spouse’s privacy — on the damn privacy community! Smh

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