This is exactly why I don’t have graphene os, the irony of having to support google is too much for me call me paranoid but i also dont trust them with the hardware piece either lol. I’ve been running lineage os without gapps and its honestly great, updates and patches are every few weeks, super stable and awesome.
If you try to browse to the tailscale website does it work?
If it does you could setup tailscale with an exit node at your house and tunnel your connection that way? Everything would then be coming from your home internet. I have had good success with tailscale being able to punch a hole through some pretty filtered firewalls.
I have pocketpal setup on my pixel with graphene os and its pretty awesome. I agree that AI is inherently bad considering the environmental impact and the amount of data that is illegally needed to train AI.
That being said pocketpal is openaoirce and is great. https://github.com/a-ghorbani/pocketpal-ai