I just let my dog help me answer the door.

He’s a big boy and very talkative. The proselytizers can’t get a word in…

I am genuinely sorry that this is happening

Appreciate the sentiment, but it’s not anyone’s task to apologize for someone else’s shitty behavior.

What you (and other Christians who are bothered by this approach) can do is to talk to your fellow believers about it and express your concerns.

We all know they’re not going to listen to us heathen unbelievers…