change instance, try smaller instances, like https://sh.itjust.works/ or https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/
Try Freetube.
it will download the youtube page and remove trackers and telemetry. but google can still correlate traffic from ip to other identities of yours, I am not sure if by using invidious whereby you download the webpage from the instance and the video feed directly from youtube ( if you are not using proxy option in invidious) is more private than using Freetube and NewPipe which download both the feeds from youtube. only someone from google can tell if they track connexions to youtube “video servers”.
Hi, I liked using Lemm.ee and the way you managed that instance. but cloudflare is a pain in the butt for everyone using VPNs or Tor, and I also understand the struggle of keeping an instance safe from trolls posting illegal stuff. anyways it seems this is the trend most websites are adopting these days, so I will have to make do with what works for now.
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